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They work on the things they can do something about: health, children, or problems at work. As with everything, take your time and don’t be too hard on yourself. We can’t always directly alter how someone else behaves or talks to us. If I had more time. Maybe you want to do two studies at the same time, do something with spirituality outside of the superficial life, learn to play the piano or do business. You break yourself with your unwillingness to learn and adapt. For example, accept a cold shower or anger. Then you can be flexible in finding new unknown solutions, without resistance! Moreover, it is also an easy way to achieve things as it is easier to adapt yourself than it is to adapt other people. – Scandinavian saying. “Reactive people are often affected by their physical environment. If I had a good education. The natural reaction is often to resist and to argue, until eventually, the light bulb flicks on. This was the article on Developing a Proactive Attitude, which is one of the meta programs . Example: it is normal in the Netherlands for an 18-year-old to choose one study, take a side job and spend the rest of the time on the terrace doing nothing and checking dumpert.nl every now and then. But we cannot change the past, so dwelling on those mistakes is a form of reactive behaviour. During your practice, you’ll notice how easy it is to slip into reactive mode. Self-control: What are the characteristics of this trait? You cannot control how others behave, but you can control how you deal with it. How can you act proactively? If you think out of the box in this case, you can look beyond the two options given and you may choose to travel from Eindhoven Airport to Frankfurt by plane. 96 Tips! Put a successful football coach, such as Louis van Gaal, and an unsuccessful football coach, such as Frank de Boer, next to each other. If I didn’t have to work so hard for it. In Stephen Covey’s books you will find more characteristics of proactive people. When we are told that the situations we find ourselves in and the emotions we experience are largely from our own doing, it's hard to accept. Goody spends hours in his library and his lab. Reliability Tips & Explanation (Being A Reliable Person), Taking responsibility, how do you do that? In this article you will find tips and examples of a proactive attitude, as well as properties of reactive people. [Meaning], Do You Become A Caring Person? Take responsibility and be on the cause side. They change the thing that can be changed (the cause), rather than trying to treat the symptoms (the result of the cause). I have no real control over any of these events, they have control over me. The eureka moment occurs — the realisation that we are in fact in control. In NLP, flexibility is mainly seen as temporarily letting go of your own ideas and plans completely so that you can step into the perception of other people. Nothing in this life is worth worrying. Football coach Louis van Gaal managed to finish 3rd at the 2014 World Cup from a team full of youngsters with no international experience. That means for everyone with whom I meet: the will always be subject to change and not with 100% spontaneity. How can we make the shift from reactivity to proactivity? Tags: choices, flexibility, meta programs, options, proactive, virtues. They are just happy and they can have a genuine smile on their face despite the weather. feelings are not in others / the environment but in you. 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This was the article on Developing a Proactive Attitude, which is one of the, How To Stop Being So Hard On Yourself [9 Great Tips], How To Stop Wasting Time In Life: Take This Crucial Advice, The Downsides Of Personal Development [Criticism] [7 Pitfalls & Dangers], How to start a conversation with anyone: 15 tips [Making contact], 372 Friend Tag Q&A Questions [Best Friend Quiz], Best conversation topics: always have topics to talk about, Friendzoned? Moreover, it is also an easy way to achieve things as it is easier to adapt yourself than it is to adapt other people. It is not the strongest that survives, not the most intelligent, but the one that responds best to change. In social conditioning, an entire country displays a certain behavior. “I wish I had more time for that, but…”. In business; where you work to your strengths and contribute as much as you can to the company rather than letting your belittling boss bring you down. Instead, accept that you made them, take whatever you can learn from them, let them go, and move on. It involves a huge paradigm shift, with us taking responsibility for our current circumstances. This shows commitment and respect, which will be rewarded. They are often proactive in their method, attempting to address underlying causes of the symptoms. All. Been criticised by someone at work or home and consequently felt down for hours afterwards. That doesn’t always mean saying it in a loud voice. For example, act and respond positively to positive things (for example, when a woman shows that she likes you), but not reactively / dependent, nor react reactively to negative things. Dealing With Setbacks & Hardship [Lessons & Examples], Presuppositions language pattern: meaning & examples [NLP], Peripheral Vision: Meaning & Exercise [Essential Skill], How to make dreams come true? In a proactive strategy, you foresee a problem and find ways to mitigate it. [33 tips to realize dreams 100%], How To Become Rich? Take a breath, take a step back, think … and only then come up with a response. by bad influences or bad results from the past. If I had money. In social conditioning, an entire country displays a certain behavior. – John Maxwell, Freedom is what we do with what is done to us. Reactive Approach: The hotel takes no action, until repeated requests from guests to provide accommodation to their pets. The world won’t break you. Show this in everything you do, even through your tonality. Consciously change these to more positive, empowering phrases. Read on to learn all the traits of proactive people …, The lessons on proactivity are perhaps the most important lessons from the famous book The Seven Habits of Effective Leadership (Covey) . And then read Frank de Boer’s statements. How can we apply this thinking to our everyday lives? Begin with the little things, not with the death of a loved one or the suffering of innocent people. 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